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Bring your questions. All of them.

A simple way to prepare for a conversation about your health and the years ahead.

Decide what matters to you

Before an appointment, write down the main things you want to discuss. That might include a change you have noticed, a question about a medicine, or an activity you want to keep enjoying. Put the most important concern at the top.

Bring the details you want to remember

Make a list of medicines, over-the-counter products, vitamins, and supplements you take. Note the questions you have about them. If something has changed, write down when you first noticed it and what you want the clinician to understand.

Ask for plain language

Useful questions include: “What are my options?”, “What benefits and risks should I understand?”, and “What happens next?” If you are uncertain about instructions, ask for an explanation or a written summary.

Let evidence lead the longevity conversation

If a product promises dramatic results, take the claim to a qualified clinician before making it part of your routine. Birdie is a fictional character, not a health professional. This page helps organize a conversation; it does not provide personal medical advice.

ONE SMALL THING

Write down your top three questions before your next appointment.

Further reading: National Institute on Aging: preparing for a doctor’s appointment. General educational content; discuss personal health decisions with a qualified professional.

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